List of Twin Flame Characteristics
A few cautions here: Many claim that you and your Twin Flame will have the same Sun or Astrological sign. Our answer is, false. Astrology will not tell you if you are with your Twin Flame. Astrology shows us potential, variables, and possibilities. Astrology falls very short when it comes to romantic matters and it certainly will not predict future events to a fault. So, please do not rely on Astrology to tell you who your Twin Flame is, because it cannot.
People may have gotten this information from an excerpt of Linda Goodman's Love Signs. She states that if two people have "1-1 Sun Sign Pattern" (same Sun Signs) and they are "spiritually advanced in equal measure".... they will possibly have the experience of finding their Twin Flame also stated by Linda as "The Thunderbolt Path of Karma". It also states "(along with certain others, under different particular circumstances)" and ..."though this is a rare mystical achievement."
~Linda Goodman's Love Signs~
So as you can see here "(along with certain others, under different particular circumstances)", tells us that having the same Sun Sign is not going to accurately diagnose two people as Twin Flames, because there are exceptions to that rule. She also states that "The Thunderbolt Path of Karma" is a "rare mystical achievement." As we've stated before, our Archangel guides told us Twin Flames are rare.
Numerology is another aspect many think will tell you whether you have found your Twin Flame. Though Michael and I have similar numbers and we both have 11 in our numbers, we do not believe that numerology is going to be the definitive answer either.
Don't get me wrong, we absolutely trust Astrology and Numerology, but we don't believe that even the best astrologer or numerologist knows exactly what to look for when it comes to Twin Flames. We firmly believe that the mystery of Twin Flames cannot be cracked by these methods and for good reason. It's just one of the many Secrets of God that we will probably never know in our lifetime.
List of Twin Flame Characteristics
- Twin Flames will resemble each other in appearance, typically will look like brother and sister or even biological twins. (not always, but for the most part.)
- Twin Flames will have similar childhoods, will have worked in similar places (although different areas of the world or country). Will have experienced the same things as children and as young adults at the same time, or very near the same time. This will continue on into adulthood until they meet. ( Example: They may both have spent time in a hospital for the same reason at about the same time, etc... If one is a few years older than the other, the younger will experience the same things the older one did at a that specific age.) * On a side note, this parallel life does not stop once a person Unites with their Twin Flame, it continues. I will explain at the very bottom of this page what I mean.*
- There may be other similarities that the couple will share, these are just a few. Basically you and your Twin will live parallel lives, like a time-line of unique experiences that both share. If one must lose a tooth the other will lose the same tooth...in our case if his is right side mine is left side...same tooth different side. (Do not be afraid that everything must be this way, as we've said before it will be things you agreed to do before incarnating here. Not every single thing that happens to one Twin will happen to the other. And we've noticed that if one experiences something quite serious the other will experience it with less intensity. One Twin will carry the brunt of the experience because that is their role to protect the other Twin and the role will flip with different experiences. But more often than not, at least in our case, it seems to work out to be around 85% of the time we experience the exact same experiences.)
- It is not uncommon for the couple to have totally different backgrounds even though they share much of the same experiences. (This is what makes the synchronicities stand out).
- Very often and most likely one person will be the opposite to the other in many ways. One may be more spend-thrifty, the other less so. One may be more sexual, the other less so. This list can go on and on, yet the similarities to each other will be just as many if not equal to the opposites.
- Twin Flames will act much like actual twins. Have you ever watched how twins act? They are constantly in tune with the other and then they fight and argue like they are from two different planets, yet they are exactly the same, yet they are totally different. And this is exactly what Twin Flames will do.
- Twin Flames will be telepathically linked and not necessarily consciously. It just happens naturally and it is constant.
- You can easily feel each other's physical and emotional pains. As Twin Flames you are, in essence, the same person, although in different bodies. This does not diminish your individual self, yet you feel "Whole" with your Twin.
- Your Twin Flame is the perfect "Mirror Image" of yourself. You will see yourself in them. This helps you to accept and love yourself unconditionally because you love and accept your Twin Flame unconditionally.
*The Mirror Effect, I see you in me and I in you...Koo-koo-Ka-chu!*
This is what is called the "Mirror Effect". Twin Flames are so very much alike, so much so that they are Mirrors to each other, just like biological Twins. But the two are also and most usually quite opposite in many ways as well. It's dramatic and unusual and very funny at times.
An example: I have certain characteristics that I see being replayed through my Twin Flame. I see this happening, and I am full of wonder. I am dumbfounded at this realization. "Yes, I have acted this way many times, and look...I see it in my Twin so very clearly and I see how ridiculous I have been at times, but yet, I cannot judge my Twin for being this way, as I have been before....It's actually adorable to watch my Twin act this out, and it makes me love my Twin even more, because not only am I loving another person unconditionally, I am also accepting myself and learning to love myself unconditionally and that is a beautiful thing indeed.
(Now, some may say; "But aren't all relationships mirrors?" Not necessarily and not to the capacity with which we are talking here. This is like literally looking at your Twin Self, it is precise to the most minute detail.)
This is a short list and more can be found on other sites. No List is going to be perfect or fit your experience totally. As always trust yourself and how you feel. If it doesn't feel right to you, forget it.
* Pertaining to Twin Flames and Parallel lives. I said before that Twin Flames will likely experience the same experiences and situations throughout their lives and it does not cease once United.
Just a couple of examples:
I have had certain jobs (localized and more common in my home state than his) in my life in which Michael has never worked before in his life. Yet after being together 5 years several opportunities occurred in which Michael was given the chance (more like no choice) to work these jobs as I have done.
Micheal has lost several teeth and so have I, yet I have lost more than he has, so the Universe is seeing to it that he lose those same teeth.
What is happening here with us is we are synching up energetically, spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically. It's not exactly fun but we both understand it is necessary. It makes sense to me that when you become one with another person, that you literally become ONE.
Please don't think that we lose our individuality with this. If you knew us personally you could definitely tell that we are two different people, yet there is this force or energy that is the exact same. We complement each other perfectly. For all my faults and shortcomings, Michael has gifts and strengths, for all Michael's faults and shortcomings, I have gifts and strengths. Where he is deficient, I have the ability, where I am deficient, he has the ability. He can cook, I can't boil water. I can get things done quickly, it takes him all day long and gets nothing done. As time goes on we begin to balance each other. I can cook a little better now, he can get things done a little quicker now.
Next page: Spiritual Development.
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